Human beings have a deep need to make a difference. We want to feel useful, to feel that we matter to the people around us. We carry a universal urge to contribute, yet live in a society that largely ignores it, let alone designs for it. In doing so, people feel worse, and the social fabric continues to fray.

Why We Overlook This

We overlook this drive because many of us hold a biased, and scientifically unsupported, model of human motivation. We assume people are mostly self-interested, and that the best way to feel better is to look after yourself. This mental model then reinforces itself: we expect people to be self-interested and design the world accordingly, with many ways to express our individualism and far fewer ways to satisfy our altruistic needs. When people disengage, we treat that behavior as confirmation of our assumptions.

Social Impact Needs Science

This is also where our broader approach to social impact needs to change. Much of the social-impact sphere still relies on tugging our moral heartstrings while overlooking the behavioral realities that shape human action. We would never design public health, education, or technology without grounding them in evidence (well, technology at least…).

Applying behavioral science to social impact has significant implications. It treats our desire to make a difference as a universal behavior that can be cultivated, supported, and sustained, rather than a moral exception we hope people will choose spontaneously.

Hundreds of studies in psychology, neuroscience, and behavioral economics give us the instruction manual we’ve been missing. They point to the same conclusions.

• Humans are wired to care.
 We want to help.


• But intentions don’t change behavior. Behavioral nudges do.


• And the sustainability of any activity depends on it being rewarding, which in turn depends on satisfying three basic needs: autonomy, competence, and relatedness.

Personalized Contribution: A Better Model

Once we apply this science, a different vision of impact emerges—one that is bottom-up, not top-down. Helping becomes more compelling when it is personalized, when it reflects who people already are. For example:

• A retired carpenter repairing furniture for families who can’t afford replacements.

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A teenager fluent in digital tools helping neighbors navigate online systems.


• A runner leading short-distance walking groups for people rebuilding strength.


• A parent who loves cooking preparing meals for a family in crisis.

Each example satisfies autonomy, competence, and relatedness. Each turns contribution into something sustainable rather than dutiful.

A More Useful Way Forward

We’ve been going about helping the wrong way. People don’t need to be persuaded to care, at least not as much as we assume. They do, however, need environments that nudge that instinct into expression. When we apply behavioral science to social impact, we stop asking people to push against their nature and start giving them ways to act from it.

This is the new approach to impact: build for the way humans actually work. When we do, generosity stops looking rare and starts looking like the default we’ve been underestimating all along.